Afterbove all, someone who gets your jokes.

Someone you don't need to drag words out of, in order to get to know each other.

Someone who is bursting with energy and, cheerfulness and remains optimistic no matter what.

When we have 3 items, we can already replace one of the 'ands' with a comma. It helps the sentence sound less repetitive :)

After all, someone who gets your jokes.

I assume you may have wanted to say most of all, rather than after all

Someone you don't need to drag words out of in order to get to know each other.

When talking about dating, we generally say we’re “getting to know someone”

After allnd of course, someone who gets your jokes.

“After all” generally has the meaning/connotation of the word “since.” Idk exactly what you’re trying to say but you could use and, additionally, finally, especially, etc. And of course just adds a kind of humorous ending I thought fit with the whole text.