Chinese New Year is a traditional holiday and was supposed to be a happy occasion, but it has gradually beencome a burden for young people -especially the 80s generation.

I feel it helps readability to specify "Chinese New Year" for the first sentence of the post.

Both of the young couple's parents hope the young couple can celebrate the New Year with them, but they don't want to celebrate with each other.

This always confuses the young couple and even makes them to fight;.

Due to the rapid economyic development over the past 20 years, the quality of life in cities has surpassed that in the places where those young people were born.

So they feel very uncomfortable staying where they were born;.

Thirdly, because of the traditional concept of men being valuinged over women, elderly parents are partial to their son's family.

For example , they make their daughter's family do more of the housework, and give their daughter-in-law more smile faces and kind words.

While staying atwith my wife's family , my wife's sister-in-law is always treated better than her, and they say their daughter is always smarter than my daughter. lol.

I wish that elders' conceptideas on these things would change one day!