Is it normal not to be romantic with your spouse?

It is normal I think. The pattern of relationships are multiple and diverse. Some relationships may are romantic, people kiss each other, they flirt each other, and have fun with each other becasue they enjoy that certain status.

Some relationships may are not romantic, they are more like a friend, people also kiss each other but it may feel different if compare with romantic people. People will support each other like a real family.

You would lessly say something romantic to your parents and brother. do you? We have a real trust for our family behind our hearts and don’t say something nice intentionally. Also, people get into this kind of relationship because they are enjoying it.

It depends on which one you like, and which relationship you can get into.