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666coolboy

May 24, 2022

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How do I overcome this deep depression?

How do I overcome this deep depression? I don't know why. Other people can give an advice but not myself.

I just got depression yesterday and I feel very bad because I got very bad feedback from life in the whole day. Let me tell you one by one from my own story and how I defeat the depression. Opinion always be the first: You need to build a strong mindset and the most reliable person is yourself, only yourself.

I am doing my internship in a big company in China. And I forgot to attend the weekly meeting in the morning yesterday when I am falling in my work. My mentor or leader (actually he doesn’t want me to call him mentor) told me:” Dude, you are working. You can go home to work if you play the single game.” I thought everyone and big boss are mad but I get to know nobody noticed this and the meeting is not a big deal, but I get the bad feedback from my leader, his attitude is bad when he was talking with me. This was the first bad thing for me.

I am a sophomore at a top university in Malaysia, and I keep a not bad grade as a 2 times dean’s list holder. I am confident and complacent. I was preparing for a presentation and I thought my work is great, dr is mad when I finished my presentation. He said I am out of the topic because I was promoting a to B product called lark but he wants me to promote a consumer product. I don’t understand why to B product is not a consumer product. And I was debating with him, he told me I will get low marks if I still stick that. This was the second bad thing for me.

I got two fails in one day. In further, I have deep depression and was very unhappy whole day. However, I was very happy today.

How do I do? I have changed my mindset.

At the beginning, I try to share my sadness to my friends but It doesn’t work even if my friend comforted me. I only feel unhelpful when I finished my complaint and grumble. I actually overcome the obstacles when I told myself I should be a strong person like Kobe, learbon James, and Jordan.

“Don’t easily explore your gentle and vulnerable side to people no matter who they are. Try to digest and process the bad matter yourself. And only you can save yourself in the situation. You might ask, what if I can not? I am sorry I have to say:” You have to do that because this is the course of growing up.”
There should be some people who have experienced the same journey like us. We only be more strong and strong that we can survive in the suffering. And I believe you can do it.

Everyone is a lonely and lovely island. I believe you are the strong one!

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How do I overcome thisfeeling deeply depressioned?

From the title, I thought you would be writing about depression (the illness) and not, how to cheer yourself up after having a bad day. Personally, I'd advise against using the term "depression" for describing temporary lapses in mood, as that makes light of the actual illness and is also kind of misleading.

Other people can give anme advice, but notI can't do it for myself.

I just gotwas depressioned yesterday, and I feelt very bad because I got very bad feedback from life ineverything in life worked against me the whole day.

Let me tell you one by one fromstep by step my own story andon how I defeat the depressionovercame it.

Opinion always be the firsMindset is the most important: You need to build a strong mindset, and the most reliable person is yourself, only yourself.

And I forgot to attend the weekly meeting in the morning yesterday morning when I amwas falling behind in my work.

If you want to use "and", it's better to connect this sentence with the previous one instead of making them two separate sentences.

My mentor or leader (actually he doesn’t actually want me to call him 'mentor') told me:” , ”Dude, you are working.

You can go home to work if you play the singleif you want to play games.” I thought everyone and the big boss awere mad, but I get to knowlater found out that nobody had noticed this and the meeting iwas not a big deal, but I get the. However, I got bad feedback from my leader, and his attitude is bawasn't good when he was talking withto me.

Not sure what you mean by "play the single game" so I took a guess.

This was the first bad thing for methat happened.

I am a sophomore at a top university in Malaysia, and I keep a not bamaintain quite good grades as a 2 two-times dean’s list holder.

I amwas confident and complacent.

I was preparing for a presentation and I thought that my work iwas great, dr isbut Doctor got mad when I finished my presentation.

Not really sure if "dr" is the name of a person or short for doctor, so I took a guess.

He said I am out of the was off-topic because I was promoting a to B product called lLark, but he wantsed me to promote a consumer product.

I doidn’t understand why toa B product is not a consumer product.

And I was debatingI debated this with him, but he told me I willould get low marks if I still stiuck thato my beliefs.

Same situation with "and" as mentioned previously.

This was the second bad thing for methat happened.

In fFurther, I havemore, I felt deeply depressioned and was very unhappy the whole day.

How doWhat did I do?

I have changed my mindset.

At the beginning, I tryied to share my sadness towith my friends, but Iit doesn’idn't work even ifafter my friends comforted me.

I only feelt unhelpful when I finished my complaints and grumbleing.

I actually overcoame theis obstacles when I told myself that I should be a strong person like Kobe, learbLebron James, andor Jordan.

“Don’t easily explorose your gentle and vulnerable sides to other people, no matter who they are.

Try to digest and process the bad matterby yourself.

And oOnly you can save yourself in theis situation.

I am sorry, but I have to say:” , ”You have to do thait because thisat is the course ofnecessary for growing up.”

There should be some people who have experienced the same journey like usme.

We can only be morcome strong and strong thater if we can survive in the suffering.

And I believe that you can do it.

I believe that you are the strong one!

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666coolboy

May 25, 2022

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How do I overcome thisfeeling deeply depressioned?

ohhh,get it! I thought the "depression" means our mood is bad temporarily. So which words should I use here instead of depression? Is depressed the same meaning with depression?

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666coolboy

May 25, 2022

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You can go home to work if you play the singleif you want to play games.” I thought everyone and the big boss awere mad, but I get to knowlater found out that nobody had noticed this and the meeting iwas not a big deal, but I get the. However, I got bad feedback from my leader, and his attitude is bawasn't good when he was talking withto me.

He means that I don't connect with the team because I didn‘t attend the weekly meeting, so he was mocking me by saying “ You think you are playing a single game, isn’t it?” ( He likens the collaboration to playing a game."

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666coolboy

May 25, 2022

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Thank you !

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knight

May 26, 2022

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ohhh,get it! I thought the "depression" means our mood is bad temporarily. So which words should I use here instead of depression? Is depressed the same meaning with depression?

They don't mean the same thing. "Depressed" does describe the state of someone with depression, but it's common to see it used for "a very bad mood" as well.

There's a lot of ways to say "in a bad mood" so this is just a few options. "Feeling depressed" is fine, or you could use melancholic, dejected, miserable, hopeless, feeling crushed, etc. You could consult a thesaurus for more synonyms.

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knight

May 26, 2022

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He means that I don't connect with the team because I didn‘t attend the weekly meeting, so he was mocking me by saying “ You think you are playing a single game, isn’t it?” ( He likens the collaboration to playing a game."

Then maybe something like:
You can go home to work if you don't want to play for the team.
You can go home to work if you're choosing to fly solo.

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666coolboy

May 26, 2022

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You can go home to work if you're choosing to fly solo. This is a good sentence and I like it. Thank you knight!

How do I overcome this deep depression?


How do I overcome thisfeeling deeply depressioned?

From the title, I thought you would be writing about depression (the illness) and not, how to cheer yourself up after having a bad day. Personally, I'd advise against using the term "depression" for describing temporary lapses in mood, as that makes light of the actual illness and is also kind of misleading.

How do I overcome this deep depression?


I don't know why.


Other people can give an advice but not myself.


Other people can give anme advice, but notI can't do it for myself.

I just got depression yesterday and I feel very bad because I got very bad feedback from life in the whole day.


I just gotwas depressioned yesterday, and I feelt very bad because I got very bad feedback from life ineverything in life worked against me the whole day.

Let me tell you one by one from my own story and how I defeat the depression.


Let me tell you one by one fromstep by step my own story andon how I defeat the depressionovercame it.

Opinion always be the first: You need to build a strong mindset and the most reliable person is yourself, only yourself.


Opinion always be the firsMindset is the most important: You need to build a strong mindset, and the most reliable person is yourself, only yourself.

I am doing my internship in a big company in China.


And I forgot to attend the weekly meeting in the morning yesterday when I am falling in my work.


And I forgot to attend the weekly meeting in the morning yesterday morning when I amwas falling behind in my work.

If you want to use "and", it's better to connect this sentence with the previous one instead of making them two separate sentences.

My mentor or leader (actually he doesn’t want me to call him mentor) told me:” Dude, you are working.


My mentor or leader (actually he doesn’t actually want me to call him 'mentor') told me:” , ”Dude, you are working.

You can go home to work if you play the single game.” I thought everyone and big boss are mad but I get to know nobody noticed this and the meeting is not a big deal, but I get the bad feedback from my leader, his attitude is bad when he was talking with me.


You can go home to work if you play the singleif you want to play games.” I thought everyone and the big boss awere mad, but I get to knowlater found out that nobody had noticed this and the meeting iwas not a big deal, but I get the. However, I got bad feedback from my leader, and his attitude is bawasn't good when he was talking withto me.

Not sure what you mean by "play the single game" so I took a guess.

This was the first bad thing for me.


This was the first bad thing for methat happened.

I am a sophomore at a top university in Malaysia, and I keep a not bad grade as a 2 times dean’s list holder.


I am a sophomore at a top university in Malaysia, and I keep a not bamaintain quite good grades as a 2 two-times dean’s list holder.

I am confident and complacent.


I amwas confident and complacent.

I was preparing for a presentation and I thought my work is great, dr is mad when I finished my presentation.


I was preparing for a presentation and I thought that my work iwas great, dr isbut Doctor got mad when I finished my presentation.

Not really sure if "dr" is the name of a person or short for doctor, so I took a guess.

He said I am out of the topic because I was promoting a to B product called lark but he wants me to promote a consumer product.


He said I am out of the was off-topic because I was promoting a to B product called lLark, but he wantsed me to promote a consumer product.

I don’t understand why to B product is not a consumer product.


I doidn’t understand why toa B product is not a consumer product.

And I was debating with him, he told me I will get low marks if I still stick that.


And I was debatingI debated this with him, but he told me I willould get low marks if I still stiuck thato my beliefs.

Same situation with "and" as mentioned previously.

This was the second bad thing for me.


This was the second bad thing for methat happened.

I got two fails in one day.


In further, I have deep depression and was very unhappy whole day.


In fFurther, I havemore, I felt deeply depressioned and was very unhappy the whole day.

However, I was very happy today.


How do I do?


How doWhat did I do?

I have changed my mindset.


I have changed my mindset.

At the beginning, I try to share my sadness to my friends but It doesn’t work even if my friend comforted me.


At the beginning, I tryied to share my sadness towith my friends, but Iit doesn’idn't work even ifafter my friends comforted me.

I only feel unhelpful when I finished my complaint and grumble.


I only feelt unhelpful when I finished my complaints and grumbleing.

I actually overcome the obstacles when I told myself I should be a strong person like Kobe, learbon James, and Jordan.


I actually overcoame theis obstacles when I told myself that I should be a strong person like Kobe, learbLebron James, andor Jordan.

“Don’t easily explore your gentle and vulnerable side to people no matter who they are.


“Don’t easily explorose your gentle and vulnerable sides to other people, no matter who they are.

Try to digest and process the bad matter yourself.


Try to digest and process the bad matterby yourself.

And only you can save yourself in the situation.


And oOnly you can save yourself in theis situation.

You might ask, what if I can not?


I am sorry I have to say:” You have to do that because this is the course of growing up.”


I am sorry, but I have to say:” , ”You have to do thait because thisat is the course ofnecessary for growing up.”

There should be some people who have experienced the same journey like us.


There should be some people who have experienced the same journey like usme.

We only be more strong and strong that we can survive in the suffering.


We can only be morcome strong and strong thater if we can survive in the suffering.

And I believe you can do it.


And I believe that you can do it.

Everyone is a lonely and lovely island.


I believe you are the strong one!


I believe that you are the strong one!

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