Jan. 28, 2021
Are you a cuddler?
It's nice to cuddle when you're at the beginning of a relationship.
It makes you feel wanted and loved. It communicates trust and safety. And as social creatures, we seek out human contact. But after a few years in a relationship, we lose the desire for this type of human touch, especially when it's hot.
A few days ago, I was in bed, unsuccessfully trying to sleep, when I decided to hug my boyfriend. You know, I thought It would help me relieve all the anxiety I was feeling. I was soon to found out that was not effective.
It was a really humid night. The fan was off, and it was almost 1 in the morning.
I think I managed to snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes before rolling back to my side. I felt very uncomfortable. I didn't know where to put my arm. I tried to wrap one arm around his waist and I put the other underneath my pillow, but it didn't work out. I couldn't find the right position to lay my head properly on my pillow either. Then he turned his face to me and started to breathe on my face, and that was extremely annoying, but I stayed there and didn't move. Then I couldn't breathe because it's difficult for me to breathe when people are blowing air in my face. On top of that, I began to feel really hot because it was around 30 degrees in the room. We started to sweat, and that's when I realized it was not worth it. I rolled back to my side of the bed and started to watch a series on Netflix, hoping that that would relax me.
Suddenly a thought crossed my mind. You're not a cuddler, at least not in summer. And to be honest, I was fine with that.
Are you a cuddler?
It's nice to cuddle when you're at the beginning of a relationship.
It makes you feel wanted and loved.
It communicates trust and safety.
And as social creatures, we seek out human contact.
But after a few years in a relationship, we lose the needdesire for this type of human touch, especially when it's hot.
"need" sounds weird in this sentence. I think it is because it is usually meant for things vital for survival, and cuddling, unlike water or food, doesn't fit as a "need". One thing I will note here, is that the need for human contact and other exaggerated examples do often appear, but only when you are intending to exaggerate.
A few days ago, I was in bed, unsuccessfully trying to sleep, when I decided to hug my boyfriend.
You know, I thought It would help me to relieve all the anxiety I was feeling.
I was soon to fifound out that was not effective.
It was a really humid night.
The fan was off, and it was almost 1 in the morning.
I think I managed to snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes afterbefore rolling back to my side.
"snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes after rolling back to my side" = roll back to your side first, and then hug boyfriend for two minutes.
"snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes before rolling back to my side" = hug boyfriend for two minutes, and then roll back to your side.
I felt very uncomfortable.
I didn't know where to put my arm.
I tried to wrap one arm around his waist and put the other I put underneath my pillow, but it didn't work out.
I couldn't find the right position to lay my head properly on my pillow either.
Then he turned his face to me and started to breathe on my face, and that was extremely annoying, but I stayed there and didn't move.
Then I couldn't breathe because it's difficult for me to breathe when people are blowing air in my face.
Removed another "then" to make it flow better by not repeating the same word too often.
On top of that, I began to feel really hot because it was around 30 degrees in the room.
We started to sweat, and that's when I realized it was not worth it.
I rolled back to my side of the bed and started to watch a series on Netflix, hoping that that would relax me.
Suddenly a thought crossed my mind.
You're not a cuddler, at least not in summer.
And to be honest, I was fine with that.
Jan. 29, 2021
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It's nice to cuddle when you're at the beginning of a relationship. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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It makes you feel wanted and loved. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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It communicates trust and safety. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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And as social creatures, we seek out human contact. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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But after a few years in a relationship, we lose the need for this type of human touch, especially when it's hot. But after a few years in a relationship, we lose the "need" sounds weird in this sentence. I think it is because it is usually meant for things vital for survival, and cuddling, unlike water or food, doesn't fit as a "need". One thing I will note here, is that the need for human contact and other exaggerated examples do often appear, but only when you are intending to exaggerate. |
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A few days ago, I was in bed, unsuccessfully trying to sleep, when I decided to hug my boyfriend. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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You know, I thought It would help me to relieve all the anxiety I was feeling. You know, I thought It would help me |
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I was soon to find out that was not effective. I was soon |
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It was a really humid night. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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The fan was off, and it was almost 1 in the morning. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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I think I managed to snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes after rolling back to my side. I think I managed to snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes "snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes after rolling back to my side" = roll back to your side first, and then hug boyfriend for two minutes. "snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes before rolling back to my side" = hug boyfriend for two minutes, and then roll back to your side. |
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I felt very uncomfortable. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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I didn't know where to put my arm. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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I tried to wrap one arm around his waist and the other I put underneath my pillow, but it didn't work out. I tried to wrap one arm around his waist and put the other |
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I couldn't find the right position to lay my head properly on my pillow either. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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Then he turned his face to me and started to breathe on my face, and that was extremely annoying, but I stayed there and didn't move. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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Then I couldn't breathe because it's difficult for me to breathe when people are blowing air in my face.
Removed another "then" to make it flow better by not repeating the same word too often. |
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On top of that, I began to feel really hot because it was around 30 degrees in the room. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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We started to sweat, and that's when I realized it was not worth it. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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I rolled back to my side of the bed and started to watch series on Netflix, hoping that that would relax me. I rolled back to my side of the bed and started to watch a series on Netflix, hoping that that would relax me. |
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Suddenly a thought crossed my mind. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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You're not a cuddler, at least not in summer. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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And to be honest, I was fine with that. This sentence has been marked as perfect! |
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But after a few years in a relationship, we lose the desire for this type of human touch, especially when it's hot. |
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I think I managed to snuggle with my boyfriend for 2 minutes before rolling back to my side. |
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I was soon to found out that was not effective. |
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I tried to wrap one arm around his waist and I put the other underneath my pillow, but it didn't work out. |
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You know, I thought It would help me relieve all the anxiety I was feeling. |
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I rolled back to my side of the bed and started to watch a series on Netflix, hoping that that would relax me. |
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