I read a message from aon social media that a girl was fairly worried about her own situation and needed some encouragement, becaus; she told me she was over 30, single, didn't get anyand hadn't any significant achievement ins at work.

What's worse, she had even begun to doubted that did she deserved to livinge.

In China, there is a word calledstill a belief in Societyal Darwinism, which means that if a person isn't good enough then she/he doesn't have the qualification to be aliveat participating in society, then they will be selected against and not succeed.

因为Social Darwinism的Darwin是英国人，所以人们应该已经知道这个现象，不用解释

Ist its quite horrible?.

OtherwiseBesides, Chinese women are undergo much more pressure than men: with respect to age, marriage, children, etc..

Otherwise is like 要不然.

I wonder how the situation is in USA or Europe.

Can't speak as much to Europe, but here there is definitely less stigma around working women and women who don't want families, but it's still not something that everyone is completely supportive of, especially in more traditional parts of the country.

I still can't understand that how dare a personsomeone can dare to judge another person whether she/he have a qualification's right to live by one'stheir achievements.

这个想法在美国也很流行，对很多支持资本主义的人来说，你要独立，不靠社会给你什么资源，食品、房子、健康不是权利等，就是对我们的社会有很不好的影响。

Is it quite likenot reminiscent of the thoughts of people like Hitler's?

Theres a reason that Germany was inspired by America's system of segregation, and why we welcomed so many Nazis into high-level positions in our government after the war. 中国在很多方面发生进步，但是我其实担心这样传统的看法并不帮中国改善。

The more thoroughly I think about it, the more scared I ambecome.