我的语办法

我主要的汉语学伴是我的未婚妻。她的爸爸妈妈是中国裔美国人。因为他们送她去中国几年而且她现在每天用中文办公，所以她的中文很好。

我们住在一起。尽管如此，我们不经常用中文有对话。我觉得是因为我说中文的能力比她的差多了。我难明白她的时候，她有点沮丧。我说得非常慢，所以她有时失去耐心。我们的母语都也是英语，所以经常我们放弃用中文为了一个复杂的对话。

反正我也不认为你的伴侣的责任是教你一个语言。如果想要，就还好，但是不是每个人都愿意或者能当好的老师。我很高兴接受我未婚妻想要给任何的帮助。

My main Chinese language learning partner is my fiancee. Her parents are Chinese American. Since they sent her to China for a few years and she works in Chinese every day, her Chinese is very good.

We live together. Despite that, we don't often have conversations in Chinese. I think it's because my Chinese is so much worse than hers. When I have a hard time understanding her, she gets a bit frustrated. I also speak very slowly, so sometimes she gets impatient. We both speak English natively, so often we just give up on using Chinese for particularly complicated conversations.

I don't really think it's your partner's responsibility to teach you a language anyway. If they want to, then that's fine, but not everyone is able or willing to be a good teacher. I'm happy to accept whatever help my fiancee wants to give.