6月3日话题：你的朋友和家人会如何形容你？

我认为我的家人和朋友对我有不同的了解和印象。

先讲父母吧。我觉得由于他们看到我长大的，他们看到我朋友没看到的一些方面，肯定会直接坦白地判断我，不避免指出我的缺点。因为我的父母有比较传统的想法，而我的思想比较开放，以前我们之间产生了很多矛盾。小时候虽然我看起来乖，我有点叛逆。我的父母会说我有点自私，根据自己的想法跑。性格强，对某些事很固执。幼稚，有时不现实。内向，独立，不怕孤独，并且喜欢呆在自己的空间里。他们确实觉得我有点奇怪，但是渐渐地也接受我就是这样的！

关于朋友们，我觉得亲切的朋友和一般的朋友也会有不同的了解。一般的朋友说虽然我看起来害羞和安静，尤其有点冷漠，我是个容易相处的人，一位好倾听者。意态文雅，外貌阴柔，性格乐观。（我写这些感觉有点凡尔赛，但是这确实是人家告诉我的！我自己觉得不完全准确。）这两年，我心态也变得更加"chill"，能说我佛系吗？很多朋友最近告诉我，他们感觉跟我相处很自在，我听得也很开心！

更了解我的朋友会说我是一个比较另类的人，不太在意遵从潮流，就往自己的方向走。他们也知道我是个慢性比较犹豫的人，有的时候不知道自己的方向是哪里。还有，虽然我表面看起来很轻松，他们知道我还是对自己有具体的标准，喜欢深刻地思考人生人类。最后，他们知道我很需要独处的时间，甚至有的时候会消失几个礼拜，几个月，几年，然后突然有一天又出现！（不好的习惯）

How would your friends and family describe you? // I think my family and friends have different understandings and impressions of me.

First, let's talk about my parents. I think that because they have watched me grow up, they've seen certain aspects that my friends haven't seen; they would judge me more directly and frankly and not hesitate to point out my shortcomings. My parents have more traditional ideas, whereas my outlook is more open-minded, so this resulted in many conflicts in the past. As a child, while I seemed obedient on the outside, I was somewhat rebellious. My parents would say I'm a little selfish, living according to my own ideas. Strong-minded, stubborn about certain things. Childish, sometimes unrealistic. Introverted, independent, unafraid of loneliness. Someone who likes a lot of space. They still think I'm a little strange, but they gradually have accepted that this is just the way I am!

As for friends, I think closer friends and more casual friends also understand me differently. Normal friends will say that even though I appear shy and quiet, perhaps even a little cold, I'm someone who's easy to get along with and a good listener. Elegant and refined, feminine in appearance, sunny disposition. (It feels a bit like bragging to write these things down, but people have really told me these things about myself! I think it's not entirely accurate...) In the past two years, my outlook and demeanor has become more "chill". Perhaps one could say that I am "佛系“? Many friends recently told me that they feel very comfortable around me, which makes me happy to hear!

My friends who understand me better will say that I'm an unconventional kind of person who doesn't care much about following the trend; I'll follow my own direction. However, they also know that I am a hesitant, indecisive person, who sometimes does not know what direction to go in. Also, although I look relaxed on the surface, they know that I still have specific standards for myself and like to reflect on life and humanity. Finally, my friends know that I need to be alone often, even to the point of disappearing for a few weeks, months, years, and then suddenly coming back one day! (Not a good habit)